My childhood was not a childhood.  In my family, men had sex with 
little girls.  It was our normal.  It was our culture and it was 
generational.  My parents grew up with it.  Their parents grew up with 
it.  Most of the victims in our family didn’t remember it because the 
trauma caused memory loss.  We were a family of traumatized individuals 
who were doing whatever it took to survive … usually at the expense of 
the others.